Women reflexively view a Man discussing such issues as “whining” or “complaining” or “bitterness” or “sour grapes” or “well, you just chose poorly, so sucks to be you” or “suck it up, no one wants to hear you bitching about it”.

Women cannot listen to Men talking about or working out their dating/mating/relationship issues or problems. A woman seeing a Male go through the above will seek to replace that Male immediately. If it goes on long enough, it kills the attraction it sets off your hypergamy alarms and subconsciously causes you to start hunting for a replacement Man. You say you want to “be there” for your Man but you cannot do it.

'From Empathy: Women cannot bear to see a Man experiencing negative emotions such as extreme anger, rage, fear, despair, despondency or depression for extended periods of time.